Looking in an ironic and satyrical way to the values, hopes and certanties that our societies gives, imposes on us. “Your men” are the men of your life, the ones that will make you happy. This is what you’re supposed to believe. Give yourself to them, with no questions, no worries.
But reality is always more complex than what we tend to believe. Under a word there is something else. Behind an image there is a different reality. Sometimes what we find is better, sometimes is completely different from the surface where we were.